It's a common belief that positive thinking leads to a happier healthier life. As children we are told to smile, be cheerful, and put on a happy face. As adults we are told to look on the bright side, to make lemonade, and see glasses as half full. Sometimes reality can get in the way of our ability to act the happy part though. Your hope can fail, boyfriends can cheat, friends can disappoint. It's in these moments, when you just want to get real, drop the act, and be your true scared unhappy self.Grey's anatomy episode 22-Happy Shiny People
yes, people always live in denial, because the denial is the hope that the dreams will come true, and the bad things will eventually gone. but, at one point of life, you will get very sick of being optimistic.
my believe is, when people said i don't, it's actually a denial, the hope that she really don't
like "I Don't Love You"
"I'm so over it"
especially when you told other people even when they're not asking. when you think it is, when you hope it is.
and i believe, a person who writes a song about how she is so over someone, is absolutely not over that someone. cause if she is really over him, she won't bother to write a song about him..even a bitter one. the reason she writes, because he's always crossing her mind. in every form, sweet, bitter, sour..
and she needs to hate him. in order not to love him too much
sometimes we need to be pessimistic. so we are ready for every bad things. and if a good thing happens, it's a bonus. AND THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS the only exception. it's the fairy tales thing you hope will happen in the middle of your messy life!! for god's sake, be real. don't always think that you are so special to get the only exception.. but you can make other people feel like she is the only exception. just to make her feel in the zone of comfort.
ok, i'm writing too long. here comes again, the bitter and screwed me..