you're going to lose that girl

after chasing part is done, here comes the first stage of the relationship. no more honeymooning, trying to fit each other. doubts overflowing, especially when you have a friend that keeps telling you, you made the wrong choice. can friends let us be happy for a few lifetimes?

i have this two friends who i matchmade. during the first stage of the relationship, if both of them have problems, they would run to me and burst everything. trying to fit each other is hard. mind became critical, misunderstanding and miscommunication is always a must. you dont trust each other. so i said to the she and the he, if you're not expressing your real feeling, the dissatisfaction to each other, you're going to lose that girl/boy. if you dont let you ego down, and say sorry, you're going to regret. and "jangan tinggal daku" words came out. makes us girls feel so touchy and burst in laughter.

sometimes you have to listen to third parties. but if they became too critical and unsupportive, you know what to do. it is you and you in this relationship. others are just the supporters and ruiners. i'm glad i am the supporters kind of friend.

i was inspired to write this post after listening to sudirman, because the he friend is a big fan of sudirman. i was his friend since 2006. i realized he had this big crush on her since the beginning. i asked him and he denied. in 2008, he confessed to me but too scared to tell because she always like other guys (or konon2 nya good guys and turned out to be a disappointment, and i found these typical guys a few times) so in 2009, after she has been through so many heart-breaking life story, i told her about him. at that time i realized she likes him too, but she herself did not notice it. after she knew it, she waited for his confession, and it took too long until she wanna give up on him. after a lot of provocation from me, "you're going to lose that girl" whatsoever, then he confessed. me and another friend "the best man" took a lot of role in their relationship making.

and now, even when they have relationships problems, they can handle it themselves, cause they dont listen to anyone anymore. they trust each other. and they're going to get enganged this november. congrats. and im going to be the bridesmaid, always will.



this is how a woman fight for her friend! and thats the reason why i love watching gA. the twisted friendship bond